In these blessings, I always tell those concerned to be most
thankful to God, since in the end, he is really the one who provided
them with those items to be blessed. Even if they were the ones who
made them, or spent for them, etc., in the end it is God who gave them
those items. And the gratitude toward God should be expressed in deeds
more than just in intentions and some nice words.
The idea behind the encouragement to be thankful is for
those concerned to continue growing in their relationship with God. I
always remind them that the blessing is not just some kind of social
custom for them to be socially correct. It has a deep religious
meaning that they should always keep in mind when using those items.
It is meant to relate them and the things being blessed to God always.
If it’s some token of devotion to be blessed, I usually tell
them to see God or whatever saint is involved in those tokens. They
should feel invited to be with God or the saint whenever the token is
used.
That is also why, given the common tendency to take religion
for granted, I tell them to put many tokens of devotion around, so
that the presence of God would not be lost to them and to the others
with them. Those tokens should remind them that their life is and
should always be a life with God, and not by themselves alone.
If it’s a bike or a car to be blessed, I remind them that
those vehicles should strongly remind them that our life here on earth
is like a journey toward a definitive destination, which is heaven
with God.
I tell them that everytime they use those vehicles, they
should be reminded of the underlying religious meaning and purpose of
their use. They should not just get stuck with the technicalities and
the worldly and temporal purposes of their use, like affording them
mobility, convenience, comfort, etc.
In fact, they should devise a way where everytime they use
those vehicles, they should not just get to some place, but should get
the sensation that they are getting closer to heaven. To be sure,
having this religious meaning in mind would not distract them from
their driving. Rather, it would make them most careful.
And if it’s a house to be blessed, I tell them that their
house should channel and reflect the definitive home we are supposed
to have in eternity. I encourage them that aside from making their
houses as beautiful as possible, they should make their houses a home
where love in all its manifestations is nurtured.
There should be constant concern for one another, eagerness
to help and to understand each other. The house should be turned into
a home and a school where the basic education and formation of the
those in it is carried out. In fact, the home should be made like a
domestic Church where faith, hope and charity should be fostered.
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