Saturday, July 20, 2019

One view on the millennials


THIS is just one view among many others with regard to the
so-called ‘millennials,’ those young people born between 1980 and
2000. I have heard quite a bit of comments about them, and many of
them are not good. I thought of putting my two cents if only to give a
more balanced view on them.

              Some people say that the millennials are very different
from those of the previous generation, as in, they are disturbingly if
not offensively different. They are not just different in a legitimate
way, but rather that they have already crossed the line of legitimacy.
  
            In one talk show, for example, they were characterized as
“coddled, entitled, narcissistic and lazy.” I thought that was a
rather sweeping and reckless characterization of these young people
who are grappling with a significantly different world environment,
what with all the technological progress and the many ideological,
cultural and lifestyle choices, etc., they are exposed to.
  
            I find it unfair to see and judge people more by their
peripheral aspects rather than by the more essential one that should
have a universal applicability irrespective of what generation one
belongs, or of race, religion, gender, etc. We have to be clear about
what things we should hold as having an absolute value and what also
are those that only have a relative value.
  
            Yes, there will always be differences among the different
generations, some of them we may consider as legitimate while others
we may already deem as illegitimate. This phenomenon should not come
as a surprise. Given our human condition, we will always have these
kinds of differences. But that should be a challenge we have to
tackle, making clarifications in an atmosphere of respect, patience
and charity.
  
            Truth is what the past generations worked so hard to
discover and accomplish are now usually already taken for granted by
the current generation as it will try to discover and accomplish other
new things or at least introduce certain innovations. This fact will
bring about certain differences in attitudes and outlook. So it is
unfair to compare people from different generations using the
yardstick of a particular generation.
  
            Of course, not to be forgotten is the reality that
regardless of whatever generation one belongs, there will always be
cases of persons who manage to do good and take advantage of what
their generation in general has accomplished, as well as cases of
persons who misuse and get spoiled by what their generation has
developed.
  
            We just have to learn to live with that reality, and focus
more on what can unite the different generations rather than on what
divides. We need to know where to find the source and energy of unity
among the different generations. And this can only be God. Without
him, there is no way but for us to cause division and conflict among
the different generations.
  
            In this regard, we have to focus on catechizing everyone
about God and us, about how we come from God and how we ought to live
our whole life with him, discerning and following his will and ways
not only on the big issues of life but also on the small, ordinary and
usual ones.
  
            We should be guided by the basic moral principles that are
truly inspired by the teaching of Christ and authoritatively taught by
the Church. But we should also realize that these principles are never
frozen and rigid, but rather alive and still open to further
deepening, refining and polishing to better adapt to varying
situations without compromising what is truly essential and absolute.
  
            With good doctrinal and moral foundation, we should be
able to discern what is good and useful in any development in a
particular generation, and what is bad and potentially dangerous in
that generation.


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