Saturday, February 29, 2020

From zip to zapped

WE have to be most wary of this particular predicament
that, sad to say, is becoming more common these days. This is not
about the usual and normal aging and deterioration we can expect as we
grow old after a life of very active work. This is about the aging and
deterioration of our spirit that is supposed to be always new and
young, despite the aging and deterioration of our bodily organism.

            This aging and deterioration of the spirit can even affect
young people who in spite of their bodily health and general good
human condition find themselves sad, depressed, indifferent, tired,
practically zapped. They seem to find no more meaning and purpose in
their life. They could not get any motive to move on. In the worst
scenario, they even commit suicide.

            Fortunately, I also have met old people who, in spite of
their depleted strength and vitality, continue to show zip and a zest
for life precisely because of their healthy spiritual life. They are
cheerful, optimistic, positive and constructive in their views and
reactions to things. They even are eager to lend a hand when they can.

            We really have to take care of our spirit which can only
be properly animated if it is vitally engaged with the spirit of God.
We come from God and we belong to him, meant to share in his very
life, starting here on earth, until we reach our definitive state in
heaven.

            Our spirit should not just be pegged on the spirit of the
flesh or of the world only. These spirits cannot go the distance.
Neither should our spirit be allowed to be unclear about what inspires
and animates it, because that condition would just expose it to the
most vicious of spirits, which is the spirit of the devil.

            The earlier this basic truth about ourselves is known and
acted on, the better for us. Thus, it is recommended that right when a
person is still a child, he is introduced to the world of religion, of
faith, of the spiritual and the supernatural, of God. Of course, this
has to be done in a gradual way, depending on the capacity of the
child.

            As soon as the child can understand it, he has to be
taught that he has to enter into a personal relationship with God who
is everything to us, showing him some practical ways of how this
relationship is established and developed—through prayer, little
sacrifices, the sacraments. They have to be taught to know more about
God through the appropriate books, and to develop love and devotion to
him.

            Some people might ask and even complain that this might be
treating children improperly, since children do not know yet the full
meaning of all these acts. They may even go to the extent of accusing
us that we are compromising the freedom of these children.

            My standard reply to these points is that we give children
what they need even if they do not ask for it. They may even resist
and not appreciate what they actually need, as in the case of the
little child who refuses to eat because he wants to play, or he just
is not interested, etc. But we would always try to find ways to make
the child eat, because he needs to eat.

            We have to realize that the greatest need of man is God.
So, we should introduce God to everyone as early as possible and
practicable. That way the child can already have some familiarity with
religion and the different acts of piety which can always be developed
and enriched as he grows older.

            In that way, he will realize early on that he needs his
spiritual soul to be animated by the spirit of God to keep himself
going regardless of the circumstances and conditions in his life.

Friday, February 28, 2020

Never suffer alone

WE have to remind everyone that when we suffer, we should
see to it that we avoid suffering by our own lonesome. That would make
our suffering, whatever may be its cause, whether it is self-inflicted
or caused by others, a useless and purely negative event.

            Truth is our suffering can have tremendous meaning and
positive effect on us if we go through it always with Christ. If we go
by our Christian faith, we are sure that Christ is ever willing to
suffer for us and with us, and to convert our suffering into the very
means of our salvation, in fact.

            There is no human suffering that Christ is not willing to
make also as his own. And he does it because he loves us, he wants to
save us, he wants to bring us back to him. Let’s remember that his
love is first of all gratuitous. He loves us first before we can learn
to love him in return.

            Christ loves us even if, according to our human standards,
we do not deserve to be loved. Let’s never forget that because of this
love, he, being God, emptied himself to become man, and still went
further by assuming all our sins by going through his passion and
death on the cross and by his resurrection.

            It is in the nature of love, as revealed and lived fully
by Christ, that the lover identifies himself with the beloved, and
leads his beloved to the highest good. That’s what Christ precisely
did for us and continues to do. He adapted himself to us in all the
possibilities of our human condition to lead us to himself, our
highest good since he is the pattern of our humanity and the savior of
our damaged humanity.

            What St. Paul said about being “all things to all men”
(cfr. 1 Cor 9,22) can first be applied to Christ. Christ went all the
way to become like sin, even if he did not commit sin, if only to save
us. (cfr. 2 Cor 5,21) He was not averse to any kind of suffering
caused by our sin. In fact, he embraced the cross to assume all the
suffering that we can have in this life.

            All these truths of our faith should reassure us and fill
us with peace, hope and joy. We have to continually process these
truths so that they can really enter deep in our consciousness and
become the very germ of our attitude toward any kind of suffering we
may encounter in life.

            So let’s not waste too much time lamenting over our
sufferings which are unavoidable in our life. What we have to do is to
immediately refer our suffering to Christ, asking for forgiveness for
ourselves and for others, since suffering is always a consequence of
sins, ours and those of others.

            Then let’s try to assume the attitude of Christ toward his
own suffering and death. He, in fact, looked forward to his passion
and death, embraced it with all his heart in spite of the pain,
because that was the will of the Father for the salvation of man.

            That should also be the attitude we ought to have.
Otherwise, our suffering gets trapped in the world of pure negativity
and misfortune. If we are consistent with our Christian faith, we get
to see this peculiar aspect of the reality of human suffering. It’s an
aspect that is spiritual and supernatural that goes beyond our human
and worldly standards and criteria.

            Here we see again how indispensable it is to relate
ourselves to God always. In fact, we are being asked to unite and
identify ourselves with Christ to such an extent that we truly become
‘alter Christus’ (another Christ) or even ‘ipse Christus’ (Christ
himself). Our suffering can be a path to be identified with Christ.

            To be sure, this is not falling into some kind of
perversion or a psychological anomaly. This will lead us to the
fullness of our humanity that can transcend our earthly and temporal
conditions.


Thursday, February 27, 2020

Assuming Christ’s identity

THERE’S no doubt about it. We are meant to assume the
identity of Christ, because he is the pattern of our humanity and the
savior of our damaged humanity. We can only be as we ought to be when
we assume Christ’s identity. That is to say, when Christ and us become
one.

            A fantasy? A gratuitous exaggeration? Would we not fall
into some grave presumption here or some psychological disorder? Such
reactions, of course, are understandable. As they say, we are only
human (sapagkat kami’y tao lamang), and so we can never aspire to be
like Christ, much less, to be Christ himself.

            But Christ himself said so in so many words. “He who hears
you hears me,” he said, “and he who rejects you rejects me, and he who
reject me rejects him who sent me.” (Lk 10,16) Though spoken directly
to his apostles, such words can also be addressed to all of us.

            More than that, his ardent prayer before he entered into
his passion and death was that we be one with him and he is one with
his Father. “…that all of them may be one, as you, Father, are in me,
and I am in you. May they also be in us…that they may be one as we are
one, I in them and you in me, so that they may be brought to complete
unity…” (Jn 17,21.23)

            That is why St. Paul went to the extent of saying he had
the mind of Christ. “For who has known the mind of the Lord, that he
may instruct him?” he asked. “But we have the mind of Christ.” (1 Cor
2,16)

            And what is to have the mind of Christ? St. Paul offers
some ideas. “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus,”
he said. “Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality
with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made
himself a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in
appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to
death—even death on a cross!” (Phil 2,5-8)

            To be like Christ, to have his mind, to assume Christ’s
identity, to be “another Christ” as some theologians have described
what the ideal is for us is to be humble, to be obedient, to love
everyone, including the enemies, to be willing to suffer for all, to
preach the truth, to have the attitude of wanting to serve and not to
be served, etc.

            To be sure, for us to be ‘another Christ’ is not our
initiative. It is God’s initiative for which he has given us all the
means for it to take place. He has given us his word and his
sacraments. He has given us the Church and the many instrumentalities
it possesses.

            In the end, he has given us Christ himself, the living
Christ who offers his life for us, in the Holy Eucharist. Christ makes
himself so available to us that we can have him for the taking.

            We really have no reason why we cannot assume Christ’s
identity. Of course, we have to do our part. We have to want and to
love him. Before that, we have to know him more and more, perhaps
through regular reading and meditation of his life and teaching as
contained in the gospels. Not only should we be familiar with his
words and deeds, but should also make those words and deeds as our
own.

            This will require a certain plan of life that will always
bring us to Christ whatever the situation and circumstance of our
life. But it would not be wrong if very often during the day we remind
ourselves, “I am another Christ. I have to see things, understand them
and react to them, as Christ would!” We have to overcome the initial
awkwardness to enter into the ultimate reality meant for us.

Wednesday, February 26, 2020

Tough and strong

THAT’S how priests, and others in similar position, should
be. They, we—me included—have to be tough and strong because aside
from bearing our own personal burdens, from contending with our own
personal demons, we also have to bear the burdens of the others. It is
no joke to serve like the receptacle of the problems of the others and
to find ways to help them.

            Since we priests usually hear confessions and give
counseling and spiritual direction to others, we cannot help but be
affected somehow by what we hear. And the problems of some people can
be so heavy and heart-wrenching that we end up exhausted, practically
emptied of any strength and energy.

            The worse part is what to say as advice and how to say it.
It indeed is a big challenge to be able to present the mercy and love
of God when the people’s problems seem to have no human solution or
when their miseries and weaknesses seem to be persistent and
insurmountable despite their efforts.

            In these cases, the challenge is how to present God’s love
in such a way that his love and mercy is seen as soothing, acceptable
and meaningful. The challenge is how to present God’s love such that
even if pain and suffering are unavoidable, people can see that God’s
love takes care of everything. They would realize that what they
cannot solve, God will always solve it for them in his own mysterious
ways.

            There is no doubt that a lot of spiritual and supernatural
means are needed here. We have to pray that the people’s faith gets
stirred and enlivened, that their hope gets reaffirmed and
strengthened, that their love for God gets enkindled.

            Aside from prayer, a lot of sacrifices are also needed.
Prayer and sacrifices vitally unite and identify us with Christ who is
the one to give us all the strength and light we need. Let’s remember
what St. Paul said in this regard: “I can do all things through Christ
who strengthens me.” (Phil 4,13)

            Yes, it’s only with Christ and in him that we priests can
truly be tough and strong as we should be as we carry out our ministry
of helping people in their spiritual and moral life that can be filled
with all sorts of problems and challenges.

            Our toughness should be the toughness of Christ who was
and continues to be willing to bear all the problems of men, and goes
all the way to offer his life for the salvation of men.

            With Christ and in him, our toughness would also know how
to be tender and gentle, how to be understanding, compassionate and
empathetic, as described in this passage from the gospel of St.
Matthew: “A bruised reed he will not break, and a smoldering wick he
will not extinguish, till he leads justice to victory.” (12,20)

            While our toughness will always be a fruit, first of all,
of God’s grace, it will also depend on our proper attitude, skills and
virtues. What we have to do first is to rein in but not suppress our
emotions and passions, subjecting them to the tenets of our faith
rather than just the impulses of our hormones.

            We have to learn how not to overdramatize the pain and
suffering involved in bearing the burdens of the others. This is
important because this will help us to think more objectively, and
therefore enabling us to make better judgments and assessments of
things.

            What can also be helpful is the consideration that when we
exert the effort—sometimes the heroic effort—to bear the burdens of
the others with Christ, we are actually already helping them greatly.
It is the truth about the communion of saints that assures us that
whatever we suffer for the others will always redound to their own
good.

Saturday, February 22, 2020

Ashes to ashes, dust to dust


THAT’S the title of some pop songs, the most notable of
which was the one written by Dennis Lambert and performed by the 5th
Dimension in 1973. It was a top hit with a catchy tune, though the
lyrics definitely are not mainly religious in character. Rather it
expresses angst over our tenuous and fragile human condition in this
world.

          Just the same, the song cannot help but borrow some
religious expression that is at the fore and center of Ash Wednesday,
the beginning of the liturgical season of Lent. Such is life. No
matter how secular and worldly things can be, the religious sentiment
would always manage to come out. Thus, I believe that there is always
hope in life no matter how far south it falls from God.

          Yes, it’s true that a constituent part of us came from ash
and dust and that we would one day end up also there. But let’s never
forget that there is also another constituent part of ours that is
spiritual and as such is above the fate of our material condition.

          These two components form one organic whole with the
mortality of the material part taken up by the immortality of the
spiritual part which is our soul. More than this, our spiritual soul,
being rational and capable to being elevated to the supernatural
order, actually originates from the Spirit of God, its creator, and is
kept properly alive by that Spirit if we only freely connect ourselves
with the Spirit.

          What the celebration of Ash Wednesday and the whole season
of Lent signifies is that our body and everything related to our
material, temporal and earthly condition should be properly animated
by the Spirit of God so that our bodily and earthly condition can also
participate in the spiritual, supernatural and eternal life meant for
us.

          Given the condition of our body and everything related to
it, we need to discipline and purify it so that it can enter into the
spiritual and supernatural world. This point was articulated by Christ
when he said: “The Spirit gives life. The flesh profits nothing. The
words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life.” (Jn 6,63)

          More graphically, Christ said regarding this point: “If
anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross
and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but
whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” (Mt 16,24-25)

          Let’s try our best to take these words of Christ seriously,
putting them into action especially during this season of Lent. We
should be generous in going through the practices of prayer, fasting
and abstinence, and the other means of self-denial and mortification,
and works of mercy, since these are what Christ recommends and what
the Church now encourages us to do. Let’s do them with all our heart,
and not just out of compliance.

          Let’s see to it that these practices would really give us
the sensation that we are getting closer to Christ, that we are
getting to be more and more like him, sharing his mind, his intentions
and desires, his fate. Let’s be convinced that this is what is truly
proper to us.

          We need to realize more and more deeply that in this life,
suffering and the need for purification are not only unavoidable but
are first of all necessary, given the weakened, wounded and sinful
condition of our humanity. If we go through them with Christ, assuming
his attitude toward all this, then all our suffering would have a
great redemptive value.

          Let’s remember that the Lenten season is actually a happy
season. It is like taking a shower with all the amenities given to
make us truly clean and presentable to God and to everybody else. Yes,
Lent is a season of smiles, of a great hope for an assured victory.


Friday, February 21, 2020

The homily


PEOPLE have been asking me about how the homily in the
Mass should be. I, of course, find it difficult to answer that
question, knowing that behind that question are often critical
observations people make, and that every priest has his own style, has
his own merits and limits which should be respected.

            But what I can say is that, first of all, the homily is an
integral part of the Mass, and as much as possible, should not be
omitted, especially on Sundays and holy days of obligation. It should
be given its due importance and understood properly by both the
priests and the faithful attending the Mass.

            Pope Francis said that the homily “is not a casual
discourse, nor a conference or a lesson, but a way of ‘taking up anew
that dialogue which has already been opened between the Lord and his
people.’” In other words, the homily is a continuing dialogue that
Christ initiates with the people, applying the perennials truths of
faith to the current circumstances of the people.

            The homily is not therefore some kind of class or lecture,
but rather Christ continuing his redemptive work on us, inspiring and
edifying us. Pope Francis said that priests should deliver good
homilies so that the “Good News” of the Gospel can take root in
people’s hearts and help them live holier lives.

            What is clear is that the priests in delivering the homily
should be very conscious that he is assuming the very person of Christ
as head of the Church. He has to project and channel Christ there, not
himself. He should be careful not to “steal the spotlight” from
Christ.

            And the priest should be most aware that he is speaking to
the people with the view of helping them to become more and more like
Christ, who is pattern of our humanity and the savior of our damaged
humanity. He is not there to entertain them, or to give them a class.

            While the priest, of course, can and should make full use
of whatever would help the people to listen to him during the homily,
the net effect should be that it is Christ whom the people listen, and
not just him. The priest should regularly examine himself if such is
the case when he delivers the homily.

            In this regard, it might be helpful to make use of some
words of St. John the Baptist who said, “He (Christ) must increase,
but I must decrease.” (Jn 3,30) Or some words of St. Paul who said,
“It is no longer who lives but Christ lives in me.” (Gal 2,20)

            The priest should find a way of how he can put these words
into his life, into his over-all attitude toward things, and
especially when he is giving the homily. He should know well the art
of passing unnoticed so that only Christ would shine out.

            Indeed, he has to spend time meditating on how he can
assume the mind and the presence of Christ wherever he is and
especially when he is celebrating the Holy Mass and giving the homily.
He should try his best never to depart from this state of mind, since
he is already sacramentally conformed to Christ head of the Church
whether he is saying Mass, walking in the street, or doing sport, etc.

            Yes, he has to spend time studying the gospel thoroughly
so that he can truly incarnate it in himself and express it in ways
that can really present Christ who would like to continue his
redemptive dialogue with the people of our times.

            There should never be room for improvisation. And when for
some reason one is caught unprepared because of some emergency
situation, he should implore the Holy Spirit to guide him, and let the
tremendous wonder of the Spirit speaking through him take place.



Thursday, February 20, 2020

The indispensability of the cross


THAT’S right. The cross, given our human condition, is
absolutely necessary in our life here on earth. We cannot even be
human, much less, Christian, without the cross.

            Without the cross, we think that we can be absolutely on
our own. Without the cross, the only possibility we have is to sin, to
go against God, to demean our dignity as a human person and a child of
God, meant to be in God’s image and likeness.

            Without the cross, our freedom would easily go haywire,
get unhinged and proceed to pursue false, albeit quite attractive
goals. Without the cross, pride, vanity and their cohorts would easily
dominate us. Humility and the privations and sufferings that it
occasions automatically become a disvalue and are thrown out of the
window.

            That’s the reason why Christ, who only has our own good in
his mind and heart, commanded us that if we want to follow him, we
should deny ourselves and carry the cross. (cfr. Mt 16,24) We need the
cross more than we need air to breathe, food to eat.

            We have to understand then that the cross is not something
optional, though it has to be embraced as freely as possible. We
should avoid thinking that since the cross is necessary, we should
just force ourselves to accept it. That would be a wrong and dangerous
attitude to have.

            Thus, we have to spend time meditating on this
indispensability of the cross in our life so we can form the proper
attitude and the relevant skills. We cannot deny that our human
condition at the moment is quite averse even to the mere mention of
the cross. But this condition has to be overcome, with God’s grace, of
course, but also with our own effort.

            Just like anything else in life that we want to master, we
need some training here. Thus, instead of just waiting for the cross
to come, we should actively look for it. At the beginning, it is
understandable that we take on small crosses so we can be prepared for
the big ones. There has to be gradual assimilation of the importance
of the cross in our daily life until the cross becomes an organic part
of our life.

            I remember a saint who wrote on the first page of his
personal diary the following words: “In laetitia, nulla dies sine
cruce.” (In joy, there is no day without the cross.) I think it’s a
good motto to have and to guide us. We really should try our best to
look, find and love the cross everyday.

            The cross, of course, can come in many forms. There are
the physical ones, the internal and external ones, the emotional and
mental ones, the spiritual and moral ones. There also are the
ordinary, small ones and the extraordinary, corporal and special ones.

            We can start with the small crosses like eating less of
what we like, guarding our senses like our eyes and mouth. We can put
a tighter grip on our imagination and judgments, etc. Perhaps a
relevant mortification would be to limit our use of the internet and
the many gadgets that tend to distract us from our more important
duties.

            The more subtle forms of mortification are to develop the
ability to put order into all the things of our day, observing the
proper priorities, while at the same time, trying to be as productive
as possible by learning how to put together in some kind of synergy
the different tasks we have during the day.

            When we are faithful in bearing these little crosses, then
we can be more ready for the big ones, as when we are severely
misunderstood and mistreated, when we fall into some serious sickness,
when we suffer some crisis of one kind or another.

            That’s when we can be ready for the final one: when we
face our death and our transition to eternal life.


Wednesday, February 19, 2020

The key to fidelity


IT’S love, of course. But the real one, not the fake ones
that are proliferating around these days. It’s the love that comes
from God, is a participation of God’s love for all of us, irrespective
of who and how we are. It’s a love that goes all the way, without
counting the cost, and unafraid of all the sacrifices involved.

            It’s the love that will always make us young, new and
refreshed, in spite of the passing of years. It is self-renewing and
creative, and never runs out of initiatives to look and try new ways
of expressing that love in deeds. But it is also respectful of
tradition and faithful to commitments made in the past and meant to
last till death or forever.

            It’s the love that is not afraid of problems, challenges,
trials, failures, mistakes, difficulties, suffering, etc. It does not
surrender to them even if death overtakes it. It regards them as
opportunities and occasions to grow more in love, to grow more in
trust in God’s loving providence where everything works for the good
as long as we cooperate with him. It’s a love that will always fill us
with peace and joy whatever the situation.

            We have to understand that this kind of love can only be
had if we try our best to be with God, to identify ourselves with him
through Christ in the Holy Spirit. This kind of love can only be had
if we pray always, if we constantly look for Christ, find him, serve
him and imitate him, making him direct and shape our daily life.

            This kind of love can only be had if we have recourse to
the sacraments, especially the Holy Eucharist where we have Christ
offering himself as the bread of life. In that way, our love acquires
a supernatural power that goes infinitely beyond our natural powers.
With him, what we cannot do or solve are all taken care of.

            Yes, we have to do our part, and we, in fact, should give
our all. But we do it always with Christ. With him we would not be
afraid where our love and our life will take us. He takes care of
everything. What he simply expects from us is to trust him and to try
our best to cooperate with him. We therefore would always have hope.
And we would always find meaning in everything we experience in life.

            Let us see to it then that we are with Christ always. He
is real and alive, and not just a figment of our desire to believe. We
do not make him up in our mind. More than that, he is full of love for
us, full of solicitude toward us. He always has us in his mind and
heart. And he is actually actively intervening in our life at every
moment. There is no moment when he is indifferent to us. If we are
lost, he, like the Good Shepherd, will take the pains to look for us
and rescue us.

            We have to learn to discern his presence and his constant
interventions in our life. That is why, we need to develop certain
practices of piety so that we also can properly and actively
correspond to his constant interventions of love for us.

            Perhaps, we can make use of a certain plan of life that
would include, for example, some moments of mental prayer, so that
right from the start of the day, we can already feel the intimacy of
his presence and actions in our life. Then, having a recourse to the
sacraments, especially Confession, the Holy Mass and Communion, would
definitely be helpful.

            Let us have those practices that would help us live always
in his presence: regular spiritual reading, some devotions like the
Holy Rosary, the Angelus, etc.



Monday, February 17, 2020

Tolerating but not condoning


TO be realistic about the concrete conditions of our life
here on earth, we need to know how to be tolerant of certain
unavoidable evils without condoning them. The distinction may be
difficult to make, but we simply have to learn it if we want to
survive the drama of our earthly life. I believe this is a basic skill
we all have to acquire, given the way we and the world are.

            We cannot deny that in our life, we will always be hounded
by evil in all its forms. We have our own weaknesses to contend with,
in the first place. St. John already warned us about the “lust of the
flesh, lust of the eye, and the pride of life.” (1 Jn 2,16)

            Then we have to cope with the many temptations and
structures of sin now proliferating in the world. This is too obvious
and conspicuous to merit further elaboration. Just think of the
network of corruption, deception, pornography around!

            Worst of all, we have the devil, the trickiest and
smartest of all evils, to grapple with. And he is very good in the art
of conspiracy, putting snares and traps at every move we make. It is
really important that we know how to deal with this fact of life
without unduly compromising what is truly essential in our life.

            We have to learn to be tough and be ready to get dirty
somehow without surrendering the essential. And we should not lose the
hope of overcoming evil, fighting it out till the end of our life, if
needed.

            To be tolerating is to assume an attitude of allowing some
evil or something that we do not like, to exist or to occur without
interference from our part, at least in the meantime.

            It is to suffer that evil or negative element if only to
give more attention to something that is of higher value.
This may involve a certain material, not formal, cooperation in evil.

            It should be a function of a divinely inspired sense of
practicality, reflecting the lesson we can learn from the parable of
the unjust steward. (cfr. Lk 16,1-13) and from the example of Christ
himself who fraternized with the sinners more than with the
self-righteous persons.

            It, of course, does not mean that we do nothing about
these negative elements, nor be indifferent to them, turning a blind
eye toward them. Much less, does it mean that we approve these bad
elements, regarding them as somehow good and acceptable, giving false
excuses for them. That would already be condoning evil.

            In this regard, we have to remember that if we cannot help
it, we should be willing to lose whatever is necessary to lose if only
to save the essential, as articulated by Christ when he said:

            “If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and
throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than
for your whole body to be thrown into hell.  And if your right hand
causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for
you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into
hell.” (Mt 5,29-30)

            To be sure, for us to be able to distinguish between when
to be properly tolerant of certain evils and when we would already be
falling into condoning them, we would need God’s grace and our vital
union with Christ, no less. The spiritual and supernatural means
should always be given priority over the human means.

            On our part, we should study well the moral doctrine of
our Christian faith, especially on the principles regarding material
cooperation in evil, and to make proper consultations with the right
people. It would be helpful if we can have regular spiritual direction
where we can air out our experiences in this matter.


Sunday, February 16, 2020

Stay humble and simple despite…


AMID the complexities of our life today, we have to learn
to stay humble and simple because that is the basic way to precisely
handle these complexities well. When we are humble and simple we would
know how to blend openness, tolerance and versatility on the one hand,
and to stick to the truth in charity on the other hand.

            Remember Christ telling his disciples: “Look, I am sending
you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore, be as shrewd as snakes and
as innocent as doves.” (Mt 10,16)

            We can interpret these words as Christ telling us that we
can only be shrewd and clever like snakes, capable of being open,
tolerant and versatile to any kind of worldly complicated situations
today when we remain humble and simple like doves. A humility and a
simplicity that would not lead us to be shrewd and clever like
serpents would not be true humility and simplicity. They would simply
be the fake ones.
  
            It is genuine humility and simplicity that would enable us
to face the complexities of our life because these are the virtues
that liken and identify us with Christ. And with Christ, we can manage
to tackle anything.

            Remember that we are told that with God nothing is
impossible. In other words, only with these virtues can we be “capax
Dei,” capable of being like God, sharing his power and wisdom. With
God, we can handle anything.

            Perhaps that is the reason why Christ said: “Learn from
me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for
your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden light.” (Mt 11,29-30)

            Of course, this is a mysterious and intriguing kind of
reasoning that Christ is telling us. And that is simply because he is
telling us something that is mainly spiritual and supernatural in
character. He is not giving us an indication that is meant to tackle
purely natural situations and predicaments.

            We have to realize that our life does not only have
material, temporal and natural dimensions. It has an eminently
spiritual and supernatural character for which the spiritual and
supernatural means are more important and necessary than the natural
ones.

            We just have to activate our faith to be able to put
ourselves in the proper condition to face the challenges of our life.
And that faith tells us to be humble and simple always even as we wade
through the complexities of today’s life.

            Humility and simplicity are the virtues that would make us
acknowledge that we are nothing without God. They sort of open our
soul for the grace of God to enter. And it is this grace that
transforms us, irrespective of our human impotencies, mistakes and
errors, into becoming children of God.

            And with God’s grace in our soul because of our humility
and simplicity, we can manage to receive the gifts of faith, hope and
charity. We can believe natural truths that not only are difficult to
discover but also to understand. Even more, it is humility and
simplicity that would enable us to believe supernatural truths where
there is no way for us to fully understand them, much less, explain
them in a human way.

            It is humility and simplicity that would enable us to be
like Christ, to be ‘alter Christus,’ who is the pattern of our
humanity and the redeemer of our damaged humanity. It is when we are
humble and simple that we can manage to bear and to suffer all things,
and to love even our enemies, offering forgiveness to our offenders,
just like what Christ did and continues to do.

            It would be a disaster to us if we respond to the complex
challenges of our times with our own version of convoluted
self-justifications. This happens when we start thinking, judging,
reasoning and concluding without God or, worse, when we think God's
clear commandments are already obsolete, irrelevant, a drag to our
interests, etc.



Saturday, February 15, 2020

Preparing for the future


I AM very happy to note that there are serious agencies
that are concerned about preparing people, especially the young ones,
for the future. They are talking about the need for upskilling and
reskilling them to cope with the demands of the future.

            What is more, they are providing pertinent training
programs as their way of walking their talk. They have programs, for
example, for critical thinking, creativity, entrepreneurship and
analysis, etc., that definitely will be helpful to them as they enter
a fast evolving and very dynamic world.
  
            The other day, I made a quick overnight visit to some
relatives in Manila and spent some time bonding with my nephews and
nieces who are already young professionals and the little ones.

            Frankly, I was amazed at the way these young ones are
now—very knowledgeable about technical things and full of
self-confidence. But at the back of my mind was the question whether
they would know how to relate themselves and the things that they do
to God.

            My fervent wish though is that together with these
indispensable technical skills is the more important ‘skill’ of
relating everything to God. We should not just remain in the practical
and technical levels, since everything would just end up of no value
when God is not involved.

            In fact, God has to be the prime motive and the ultimate
goal of all the new skills people today have to learn. He should not
be exchanged for something merely technical, material and temporal.
Rather, these material and temporal things should be the means for us
to get to God.
  
            We all should learn how to offer everything that we are,
that we have and that we do to God. Our work, for example, should not
just be a technical affair with purely earthly and temporal goal. It
has to be an expression of our love for God, our way of adoring,
praising and thanking him.

            To be sure, everything can be related to God, since
everything comes from God and belongs to him. And if we follow the
example of Christ, we would know that all our earthly affairs can and
should be an occasion or means to relate ourselves to God.

            Even our mistakes and sins, if we have the faith and the
proper attitude, can be an occasion to go to God who is full of mercy
and compassion. Going to him with repentance will surely draw his
forgiveness and will bring us back to his good graces. There is really
nothing in our life that cannot be related to God.

            This basic truth about ourselves and our life should
always be in our mind. The real problem we have is when we ignore God
or when we are indifferent to him, which is just one step away from
going against him.

            There is indeed a great and urgent need to make especially
the young people aware of the importance of God in our lives. Everyone
has to know how to relate themselves and everything in our lives to
God. I believe this is the great challenge facing all centers of
learning.

            To prepare people for the future, we need not only
reskilling and upskilling the technical things, but rather and most
especially the spiritual and moral aspects of our life. We need to
find ways of how to effectively train people to be with God right in
the middle of their technical work.

            For this, we cannot underestimate the importance of a
certain plan of life that should include first of all some acts of
piety and a program of continuing spiritual and moral formation.

            Yes, we should learn to spend some time daily in prayer
and meditation, in getting to know more about God through reading the
gospel and other spiritual books. We should have recourse to the
sacraments, etc.