Wednesday, May 29, 2019

When in difficulty and discouragement


WE cannot deny that our life has a lot more to offer and
challenge us than what we can handle and cope. We should not be
surprised by this fact of life. We have to acknowledge this reality
and just try our best to be amply prepared for it, developing the
relevant attitudes and skills.

            And the good preparation can start by reminding ourselves
of that beautiful story of the two disciples who were on their way to
Emmaus. (cfr. Lk 24,13-35) Like them, we can feel sad and depressed,
all hopes of a good life dashed, our expectations sharply
contradicted. They pinned so much hope on Christ to be their savior
from bondage to a foreign rule. But all that crashed with Christ’s
crucifixion.

            We just have to remember that Christ never abandons us and
is, in fact, all ready and prompt to come to our aid, albeit in ways
that we may not realize, at first, just like what happened in that
story of the two disciples.

            We should not allow our feelings of sadness to be so
dominant and pervasive that we shut off Christ’s many and often
mysterious ways of helping us. If we do not pose a deliberate
impediment to Christ’s ways, there is always hope. In our darkest
moments, some light will always come piercing and dispelling the
darkness away.

            In so many ways, Christ will remind us, as he did to the
two disciples, about the meaning of all human suffering, and of how
our suffering can be a way to our joy, to our fulfillment as a man and
as a child of God. He will explain to us why we have suffering in this
life and how we can take advantage of it to derive something good from
it.

            And like the two disciples, let us feel reassured by these
truths of our faith. “Were not our hearts burning within us while he
talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?” (Lk
24,32) they said in amazement.

            And let’s make sure that we do not stay away from Christ
and from our faith. It would be unfortunate if we would not allow
Christ to finish his work with us. Like them we should say, “Stay with
us.”

            We would have the great fortune if we beg him always to
stay with us. Like them, we would have the privilege of recognizing
Christ as he is. This can happen if we go all the way to receiving
Christ in the Eucharist, just like that moment when the two disciples
recognized Christ when he broke bread with them.

            When we are in difficulty and on the brink of
discouragement, overwhelmed perhaps by the burdens in our life, let us
try our best to remain calm and be prayerful, so that the beautiful
story of the two disciples on their way to Emmaus can be played out in
our life. Let us avail of the sacraments, especially Confession and
the Eucharist, so that what we cannot handle can be taken care of by
Christ himself.

            We should have a good control of our emotions and our
other human faculties that certainly cannot cope with all the
mysteries of our life so that these do not give problems to our faith
and trust in God’s ways.

            And, yes, we have to learn to suffer. In this life, there
is no other way but to suffer. This is simply the consequence of all
the sins of men. But if we unite our suffering with that of Christ, we
can look forward also to our resurrection and victory over sin and
death with Christ.

            We should just be sport in this life, always managing to
be in good spirit, cheerful and optimistic, even if the circumstances
are dark and painful.


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