Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Love above all


OF course, after the elections we can expect feelings of
highs and lows among us. The winners and their followers
understandably are joyful. And just as understandably also, the losers
and their followers are in some of kind of mourning mode. Let’s just
leave it at that.
  
            But let’s always remember that we are all brothers and
sisters, children of God. Irrespective of our differences and
conflicts, mistakes and offenses, we are meant to love each other
always. Let’s avoid becoming gloating winners and sore losers, marked
with anger and hatred, depression, resentment, thoughts of revenge and
the like. These actuations are actually inhuman, let alone,
unchristian.
  
            If we truly are Christians, we would know how to love one
another not only in spite of, but also because of our differences and
conflicts. That’s how Christ treats all of us. He came to love
everyone, including those who were against him, those who crucified
him. He at least offered them mercy.
  
            We have to learn from the example of Christ. He is the
“way, the truth and the life” for us. He knows what is to be man. He
knows our strength and weaknesses, and he knows how to handle them. He
is showing us how to deal with our human condition here on earth,
weakened as it is by our sin.
  
            And his example is marked with detachment not only from
his views, from his teachings, but also from his life. Yes, he was
clear and precise about what is right and wrong, what is good and
evil. He was very concerned about the cause of justice and the rule of
law. But in the end it is mercy, the summit of charity, that prevails.
  
            We have to understand that Christ came to save all of us,
and not just a few, the supposedly good ones. Precisely, he paid more
special attention to the ‘lost sheep.’ He went to the extent of
teaching us that we love even our enemies, and he acted out that
teaching by accepting death on the cross. Our relation with one
another should reflect this kind of attitude.
  
            As St. Paul would put it in his Letter to the Romans,
“Love does no wrong to a neighbor. Therefore, love is the fullness of
the law.” (13,10) This does not mean that justice is done away with.
Love always upholds and perfects justice.
   
            It is just that a love-inspired justice is not one where
the mistake of one party is corrected by another mistake by way of a
purely punitive kind of justice. Such kind of justice is not real
justice, the justice that is meant for us, given our dignity as
children of God.
  
            A love-inspired justice also has its punitive aspect, but
of the kind that heals a person of his defect, corrects his mistake
and restores his real dignity as a child of God. It’s not just
punishing a guilty person for the sake of punishing alone.
  
            This love-inspired justice, I am afraid, is not yet known,
much less, lived by a great majority of the people today nor reflected
in our legal and judicial systems. It is the kind of justice that may
appear at first sight as unfair to the innocent party, since he
appears to suffer more than the guilty party.
  
            But this is the example of Christ. This is the kind of
justice Christ is showing us to follow and live. This is how he
resolved the injustice we committed against God. He was made to suffer
and did not complain. He just bore everything, showing us how precious
we are to him.
  
            We need to do some drastic adjustments in our
understanding of justice and charity. It will obviously require the
grace of God, our identification with Christ. It will involve a lot of
effort, willingness to suffer, detachment from the things of this
world and even of our life, magnanimity and a sporting spirit.

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