Tired but not bored

IT’S understandable that at the end of the day we get

tired, dead tired even. That can only mean that we have worked a lot

and have worked to exhaustion. But we should not be bored.

  

            Boredom can only mean we are not happy with our work. We

may not find meaning in it. We may even feel we have been prostituting

ourselves, slaving for something that we do not like or finding that

we have been cheated all the while.

  

            The ideal situation should be that we get tired but very

happy, contented and feeling fulfilled. This can only happen if we

work with the proper motive which can only be love—love for God and

for others. Love makes the tiredness due to work meaningful.

  

            But that love has to be the genuine one, the one that

really comes from God, not from the many fake ones that can give some

perks for a while but later on can only become toxic.

             The God-inspired love would know how to handle tiredness

and other similar conditions like frustrations, disappointments,

stress, forced idleness due to sickness or disability, etc. It would

know how to derive something good from these conditions.

  

            This kind of love is willing to make sacrifices, to bear

the burden not only of one’s own but also that of the others. The

energy and the rejuvenating power that it gives certainly come not

from material, natural and worldly sources. It comes from a higher

source that is spiritual and supernatural.

  

            It prevents one from losing the love for work even as it

helps in losing the fear for tiredness. It does not count cost. It

simply gives and gives, and instead of feeling empty after so much

self-giving, one feels more and more filled with enthusiasm and desire

to work more, to give more.

  

            It reflects what the Book of Proverbs says: “Those who

give generously receive more, but those who are stingy with what is

appropriate will grow needy. Generous persons will prosper; those who

refresh others will themselves be refreshed.” (11,24-25)

  

            The love-inspired tiredness knows where to find true rest.

It is in Christ who said: “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy

laden, and I will give you rest.” (Mt 11,28) More than that, it knows

that whatever heavy and tiring tasks one has to do are really not so

burdensome because as Christ said: “My yoke is easy and my burden is

light.” (Mt 11,30)

             We need to examine how we deal with our tiredness. Is it a

tiredness out of the exertions of love or is it simply a meaningless

tiredness? Does our tiredness lead us to seek God or does it want to

find relief somewhere else?

             A tiredness that does want us to go to God is one that

would be most vulnerable to the weaknesses of the flesh that will try

to reclaim its so-called “lost rights” and will seek illicit and

sinful compensations. One would be feasting on the offerings of lust

and other worldly ways of relief. Of course, the devil would have a

heyday.

  

            It is important that while we are working and getting

tired, we are always with God, always finding motives for loving and

giving more of ourselves, not being afraid of the sacrifices involved.

In this regard, what can help is always to keep in mind the passion

and death of Christ which should be the ultimate standard of what true

love and self-giving is.

  

            We certainly need to promote a culture of work that

highlights this way of dealing with the unavoidable tiredness and

stress. In the families, churches, schools and offices, this culture

has to be developed. And given the temper of the times, it has to be

consciously and vigorously promoted.