ONE burning
question many people ask is, if God is truly
God and knows everything from all eternity, why does he
still create a
person when he would already know that that person would
end up in
hell? Does he not predestine that person to hell?
The answer, of
course, is a big No. God predestines no one
to hell. If one gets to hell, it is because of him rather
than because
of God who will do everything to save that person. His
mercy is
forever, but we, with our freedom, can manage to reject
that mercy, to
reject God definitively.
It may be
difficult to imagine that a person can
definitively reject God, given our weaknesses, but it is
still
possible. That’s why there is hell, as revealed in the
gospel. Hell is
not just a literary device to scare us and to pressure us
to behave
well.
It’s purely
God’s love, his goodness, his desire to share
what he has with us that makes him create all of us
irrespective of
whether we reciprocate his love or not. To be sure, God
loses nothing
if we choose to lose ourselves from him. We are just
being given a
chance to be with Him for eternity, with his help.
But God will
continue to love everyone. As St. Paul would
put it, God “desires all men to be saved and to come to
the knowledge
of the truth.” (1Tim 2,4) He loves everyone, including
those in hell.
In a manner of speaking, he cannot help but love everyone
because he
is love himself. (cfr. 1 Jn 4,8)
And since we
are supposed to be the image and likeness of
God, we are supposed to reflect and assume that same
attitude toward
everybody else. We need to love everyone, including our
enemies as
Christ himself told us, because God loves everyone.
This can mean
many things in practical terms. It can mean,
for example, that we have to be understanding of
everyone, always
charitable, quick to forgive, willing to suffer and even
to die for
the others. It can mean that we should not be judgmental
and that we
try to find excuses for the defects and mistakes of the
others. And
more than condemning others for their mistakes, our
attitude should be
to help them.
When we are
humbled by others and even offended, we should
avoid fighting back, imitating the example of Christ who,
according to
St. Peter, “did not retaliate when they heaped abuse on
him. He made
no threats when he was made to suffer, but entrusted
himself to the
One who judges justly.” (1 Pt 2,23)
Given our human
condition, wounded by sin, we really would
need to train ourselves thoroughly to acquire this
attitude and spirit
of God especially toward those who not only do not
reciprocate our
love but also who contradict and offend us.
Of course, we
would depend first of all on the grace of
God which is actually given to us abundantly. Just the
same, we have
to ask for that grace and correspond to it as faithfully
and
generously as possible, so we can have the same spirit as
Christ, as
God wants us to have.
Toward this
end, we have to learn to suffer, even to the
extent of suffering the way Christ suffered and died to
achieve our
salvation. We should not be afraid to go through some
extreme
sufferings, because a lot of blessings can definitely
come to us. God
cannot be outdone in generosity. If we are generous with
him, he will
be much more generous with us.
God’s love is
such that he is willing to suffer and die
for us as shown by Christ. That is how we should be, how
our love for
others should be. If God predestines no one to hell,
neither should we
condemn anyone definitively.
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