IF we are to be
effective in facing the many challenges
and opportunities today and in the future, we need to
hone our skills
at making plans and strategies, both of the short-run and
the long-run
types.
Especially for
the youth of today, this skill is very
necessary. We have to help them in developing this skill.
We have to
rescue them from the state of being just at the mercy of
circumstances. They have to be taught how to shape their
life by
having a clear vision of their goals and means, and
instilling in them
a sense of direction and purpose.
Sad to say,
many times we allow ourselves to drift away
and to be carried away by external forces in our
environment, leaving
us completely at their mercy. We obviously are
conditioned by certain
elements, both inside and outside us, but we are meant to
direct our
own lives too, since we are the captains of our own
ships.
We need to talk
more about this matter, since it is often
taken for granted, thinking that the young people would
just learn to
plan their life one way or another, sooner or later. This
may be true
to a certain extent, but it certainly is more proper if a
deliberate
effort be made to teach them to plan and strategize.
This may
require a lot of patience and self-discipline,
and the learning curve may be very slow at the beginning.
But then
again if we persist, there is no other way but to
succeed. And
hopefully we will see in the next generations, youth who
are more
adept at making good plans and strategies for their life
in general
and for their daily affairs.
Of course, the
most important goal of the plans and
strategies is how to relate everything to God. This
should be made
clear from the start. We have to continually give the
youth the
reasons and motivations, so that they can be sustained in
developing
and living this skill.
And then we
have to give them concrete ideas as to how to
make a practicable plan and strategy. These should
involve the whole
idea of developing the virtue of order and inculcating
the proper
sense of priorities. Of course, the inputs of our
Christian faith that
shows us how things ought to be, are necessary.
We need to look
into their attitudes, practices and
habits, and see which ones would reinforce this effort
and which would
hinder it. We have to teach them how to make plans and
strategies that
are realistic and are organic in the context of their
personal
circumstances. They have to be plans and strategies that
know how to
flex with the changing circumstances.
of an inclined plane. In the beginning, they always need
to be
spoon-fed first. They have to be asked to make some kind
of daily
schedule, defining their priorities, identifying their
needs and
resources they can avail of, etc.
Obviously, when
dealing with kids, we start with the most
elementary and immediate needs that are not, of course,
the most
important and basic. They need to be directly supervised
from always
to occasional.
But there has
to be a gradual process of letting them get
involved into more and bigger responsibilities—their
studies, the use
of money and other resources, then the development of
virtues like
order, prudence, temperance, fortitude, etc.
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