They are parents of someone whom I met sometime ago, a
person who had a hard life growing up in poor conditions but who
struggled and eventually won in the pursuit of his dreams. But that
person has already passed away. God bless him!
The house was actually just a shack, a two-room affair.
One served as an all-purpose room that is used as sala, dining room
and kitchen. There was a little toilet annexed to it and covered only
with a flimsy curtain. The other room was their bedroom, with the size
that was just enough for the couple to sleep. But it had a window that
gave a very beautiful panoramic view of the mountain landscape.
What struck me at the beginning of our conversation was
that while they acknowledged that they were poor, they did not show
any sign of self-pity or of inferiority. On the contrary, what I
noticed was that they had good self-esteem as they narrated how felt
they were greatly blessed and protected by God in the heavy drama of
their life.
They lost the two children they had, one at birth and the
other while he was already in the early twenties. But what kept them
going was their strong faith in God expressed in their ardent life of
piety.
They pray practically all day, since they consider their
work—they are farmers—as a form of prayer also. In other words, they
are always in the presence of God even while dirtied by their manual
work, and they refer everything to him, asking for light and guidance,
help and strength.
On Sundays, they do not fail to go to the small chapel a
few kilometers away to attend Mass. That’s before the pandemic. More
than that, the wife volunteers to do some tasks in the chapel,
organizing the people around for the affairs related to the chapel.
The couple is already in their 70s, hair all white, teeth
almost all already missing, with lines all over their faces and body,
but they look sturdy and in good spirit, cheerful even if they were
unrestrained in shedding tears when they told me about the
difficulties and misfortunes they encountered in life.
They felt they were very lucky and blessed by the two
children they had, because even if they went ahead of them, the two
children, according to them, gave them great joy.
I could only draw from this attitude of theirs regarding
this point that they are truly very simple people, with hearts that
are so clean and pure that they could see the loving hands of God in
every event of their life, whether good or bad, humanly speaking.
I left the house feeling renewed and convinced that,
indeed, as one of the beatitudes would put, “Blessed are the poor in
spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Yes, I felt like I saw
glimpses of heaven as I listened to them, squatting on the floor and
taking in some chicken soup they prepared for me in their simple but
wholehearted gesture of hospitality!
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