Keeping pace

SENIOR citizens like myself may start feeling that our

lives are already made and that there is not much more that can be

done in this life. In a sense, we have reason to think and feel that

way. But in another sense, we should be careful of being trapped by

that attitude, because whether we like it or not, there is actually

still a lot more to be done and should be done.

  

            We just have to keep on moving, keeping pace with today’s

developments that definitely are galloping like mad. It may not be

easy, but we all know that one important law of our life is that not

all things are easy, and the difficult ones are actually the ones that

usually matter. We should be game enough to play and dance the many

twists and turns of life.

            The other day, I was in the company of young men, usually

labeled as yuppies, who in their young age appear to have already

achieved a lot. They were talking about things that sounded too

technical to me.

  

            I was very impressed, and I suddenly remembered those

words from the song, “What a wonderful world”: I see babies cry / and

I watched them grow / They’ll learn much more than I’ll ever know…

   

            Just the same, we have to try to keep pace with the new

developments without forgetting to impart the many precious lessons we

have also learned in our own time. The inter-generational relation

should be kept alive and vibrant. A lot of good for all parties

involved can be derived from such effort.

  

            In this regard, I guess the initiative should come from

us, the elderly ones. Instead of distancing ourselves from the young

ones, we should approach them and ask them to teach us the new

technologies. I suppose they would feel good to do that favor to their

elders.

  

            It’s in this kind of situation that while the young ones

can teach us the modern technologies, we can also show them in

different ways the more important values that should guide the young

ones in their life.

   

            In that way, the journey of life becomes more meaningful

and fruitful. We avoid that some people get behind in the real march

of progress, which is not simply toward more earthly welfare, wealth

and power but more toward our heavenly goal.

   

            This will require openness of mind and heart among us, the

seniors, continuing to humble ourselves so as to be of service to the

young ones. We need to try to learn their language and ways, even if

we ourselves have our own. We should try to avoid getting siloed in

the culture of our own generation. We have to learn to reach out, to

network with them.

  

            We should be thrilled when they show us the many

possibilities of the digital world, but let’s also thrill them with

the real challenges and adventure of the spiritual and moral life. I

am sure they will appreciate that if we know how to do our part.

  

            That’s why we should make sure that our own personal life

is in order, one that is solidly built upon the foundations of the

essential values and virtues in life.