Be contemplative to be realistic

THERE are certain myths that we need to get rid of. One of

them is that to lead a contemplative life practically takes one out of

reality. Hardly anything can be farther than the truth.

            It is precisely when one is truly contemplative that he

gets a good grasp of reality. He becomes more objective and his vision

and understanding of things in general would be more complete. That’s

simply because, to put it bluntly, he is more in a position to see

things the way God, the Creator and our Father and the ultimate

measure of reality, sees them.

            He just does not depend on his senses. Though he uses them

to the full, he goes much further than what sense data would provide

him. Not even does he depend only on his intelligence that already can

penetrate into the essence of things and can transcend from the

sensible to the intelligible in all their forms and possibilities.

            He uses his faith, activating it in a working life of

piety and contemplation. Faith is a gift from God given to us in

abundance and that sheds the best light we can get to see, know and

understand things. This is where God shares what he knows with us.

            To be sure, to be contemplative does not do away with the

senses and our intelligence. Our need and use of faith in our

contemplative life will never do away with our senses and

intelligence. It, in fact, makes use of them to the max, but goes much

further.

            So to be contemplative never means that one isolates and

detaches himself from the world. The contrary is true. It makes one

more immersed in the world. Its interest is never limited but rather

is open to the all developments in the world.

            Obviously, given our human condition, we will always have

a particular or specific viewpoint and interest, but it’s an angle

that is open to the universal reality. A contemplative life that is

not open to the whole reality is not a genuine contemplative life.

            In fact, a true contemplative will always feel the need to

know more about other fields that he is not familiar with. He would at

least have an open mind, willing to listen and learn from them. Thus,

he would always feel the need to be versatile and adaptable. He avoids

being rigid and one-track-minded.

            His desire to know more about persons will be insatiable.

His knowledge of persons would always deepen and expand. He is not

contented with knowing them superficially. He has to probe the mystery

that each person is, guided by his faith and love of God that would

drive him to do so.

            This need can only be satisfied when one is truly humble.

Humility makes one always realize his inadequacy and possibility to

know more and learn more. A proud person simply does not feel this,

and tends to say enough and stop knowing more.

            And while it’s true that due to our human condition, our

limitations and those of the world, we need to distance ourselves from

time to time from the world to be able to meditate and contemplate,

it’s an exercise that is meant to enhance our immersion both in God

and in the world.

            A contemplative always feels the need to be recollected to

make sure that faith leads the way instead of the senses and the

intelligence simply leading the way. We cannot deny that the latter

always have the tendency to dominate. That tendency is simply an

indication of our deeply embedded pride and vanity that are always our

problem.

            That’s why to be a contemplative will always involve some

self-denial. No one can be a contemplative unless he knows how to

discipline and put his senses and intelligence in their proper place.

It is a self-denial that would lead him to vividly feel the push of

faith and love of God to immerse himself in the lives of others and in

the world in general.

            This is not an easy thing to do, since we will always have

to contend with the tricks of our weakened flesh that wants to

dominate us, not to mention the wiles of our wayward world and the

devil.

            But we also have ways to cope with this predicament. We

can deepen our humility, grow in our skill at spiritual warfare,

polish the art of always rectifying our intentions and correcting

ourselves whenever we find ourselves in error.

            Yes, to be truly contemplative would make us more in touch

with reality.

Our sinfulness should trigger mercy

YES, that’s right. Evil and our sinfulness should occasion

love instead of getting us stuck in horror and anger, and sinking us

in hatred or self-pity. Obviously, evil is evil and should be avoided,

unloved and atoned for. But we should never fail to make it draw us to

the dynamics of love whose supreme act is mercy.

            This is how God has dealt with us who are all sinners. He

sent his Son to us out of mercy. The Son became man and fully revealed

the true nature and love of God for us. Out of this great love and

mercy of God for us, he finally offered his life on the cross to set

us free from sin.

            This should also how we have to deal with our own

individual selves when we sin, and with one another when others sin.

We have to train ourselves in this regard. Instead of running away

from God in fear or shame when we sin, let’s rush to him who will

always be forgiving. Instead of wasting time lamenting over our

sinfulness and that of others, let’s be quick to give the mercy of God

to ourselves and to others.

            As Pope Francis said in his document, Misericordiae vultus

(The face of mercy), mercy is who God is, who we are and what brings

us together.

            “Mercy: the word reveals the very mystery of the Most Holy

Trinity. Mercy: the ultimate and supreme act by which God comes to

meet us. Mercy: the fundamental law that dwells in the heart of every

person who looks sincerely into the eyes of his brothers and sisters

on the path of life. Mercy: the bridge that connects God and man,

opening our hearts to a hope of being loved forever despite our

sinfulness.”

            In so many words, the Pope is telling us that mercy is the

be-all and end-all of our existence. Mercy, of course, is a great

mystery that can somehow be fathomed to the extent that we identify

ourselves more closely with God in whose image and likeness we have

been created.

            We need to develop it and grow in it, taking advantage of

the daily events and circumstances of our life. For certain, we have

to prepare ourselves for the pain and suffering that will be involved

in this endeavor.

            In pursuit of mercy, we cannot help but to deny ourselves.

Our pursuit for mercy cannot be separated from our effort to identify

ourselves with Christ. And Christ told us to that follow him, we have

to deny ourselves and carry the cross.

            The cross can be the pain and suffering involved in going

beyond our human limitations and weaknesses so we can conform

ourselves to the supernatural life of God that is meant for us. It can

also be the pain and suffering in tackling our sinfulness and its

effects and consequences in us.

            All this pain and suffering that we have to go through

have already been taken up by Christ himself in his passion and death.

This ultimate manifestation of his love and mercy for us has taken

away the sting of our sin and death and converted it into the way of

our salvation, if we also suffer and die with him.

            We need to appreciate more deeply the wisdom of this

divine logic and way of dealing with our sinfulness. By suffering and

dying with Christ, there is no evil and sin that cannot be forgiven.

            We can also say that by suffering and dying with Christ,

we will be creating a general atmosphere of love and mercy that will

be the best antidote for all the sins of men and their ugly

consequences—conflicts and division, envy, greed, pride, vanity, etc.

            There will be greater harmony and understanding for one

another in spite of our unavoidable differences and mistakes. Wounds,

personal or social, will be healed or at least, their deterioration

arrested.

            The world today is in great need of mercy. Our differences

and conflicts are escalating precisely because people are drifting

away from God. They are pursuing their own ideas of truth, goodness

and justice, when all of these come from God and can be known and

lived only in God.

            We are getting away from the ultimate fact that all truth,

goodness and justice are summarized in the mercy of God that is shown

to us in Christ, and now taught and dispensed by the Church.

            It really would be nice if in the face of all our problems

and sinfulness, we would be quick to ask for God’s mercy and to give

it to one another.

Emmanuel and our affections

EMMANUEL, of course, means God-with-us. It is the name
given to Christ, the son of God who became man to save us. It’s he who
perfectly translates this name into reality. Though he died,
resurrected and ascended into heaven, he continues to be with us, in
fact, not only in a passive way, but in a most active way. He always
intervenes in our life.

            God can never be absent in our life. As creator, he is the
giver of our very existence and maintains it, since otherwise we would
cease to exist. As savior through his son, he re-creates us to free us
from the clutches of sin that has deformed us. Driven by an eternal
love for us, he will always be with us.

            We need to train ourselves to be more aware of the
constant presence of God in each one of us, among all of us, and in
the whole world and the entire creation. He is in every place and in
every situation of our life. And he is actually always showing us the
way to live each moment—how to think, judge, reason, conclude, etc.
All we have to do is to discern his will and ways.

            We need to be more aware of this reality that first of all
requires faith. But let’s remember that faith should not just be a
purely intellectual and spiritual affair. Since it is meant for us,
and we are men with body and soul, our faith should affect us all the
way to our bodily dimension. It should not be stuck in the spiritual
level alone. Thus, crucial in this concern is the role of our emotions
and passions, our sentiments and affections.

            Though only secondary to the role of our intelligence and
will, our emotions and affections nevertheless cannot be neglected,
since as our Catechism teaches, they are “the movements of the
sensible appetite—natural components of human psychology—which incline
a person to act or not to act in view of what is perceived as good or
evil.”

            Our emotions and affections are integral and somehow
indispensable in our life, and therefore also in our relation with God
and with others which in the end are what our life is all about.

            We cannot and should not take them lightly for the simple
reason that if they are not for God and for others, then they would be
against them and would just be instruments of our self-indulgence,
something that will spoil us sooner or later.

            We can apply in this regard the words of Christ: “He who
is not with me is against me and he who does not gather with me,
scatters.” (Mt 12,30) These words may strike us at first as quite
demanding, but let’s always remember that Christ also has given us
everything so we can actually follow his will. All we have to do is to
avail of what Christ has given us.

            In short, if our feelings and affections are not with him,
and because of him with everybody else, then they will be against him
and others. They will just be for ourselves, lived and developed at
the instance of our own whims and caprices.

            Besides, when our feelings and affections are truly
grounded on love for God and for others, then we would have more unity
and consistency in our life, and avoid the usual tendency of ours to
profess one thing and yet do another. We would avoid, in short,
hypocrisy, double-life or at least some inconsistency in our life
where our actions often belie what we say.

            That’s why for us to be more aware of God’s continuing
presence in us and to be stably driven by the love that is proper to
us, we have to see to it that our relation with him should also be
felt, and in fact, felt quite strongly. It’s not enough that our
feelings for him are shallow, tenuous and easily overtaken by many
mundane things in life.

            We need to spend some time training our feelings and
affections to conform to our professed belief and love for God and for
others. For this, we have to ask first for the grace of God, then go
through the process of meditating the word of God, savoring the
tremendous love Christ is showing us through those words.

            We have to allow ourselves to burn with love. It should
also be a love that knows how to be practical and adaptable to the
different circumstances of our life. Let’s give it a thought and start
moving!