WE have to be more aware of this world of affectivity—its nature, its workings, its need for management and development, etc. In fact, it should be in the cross-hair, since we are now living in hyper-emotional times.
We have to be wary of taking this concern for granted, stuck in denial. The ballistic advances of our technologies have super-stirred our feelings, emotions, hormones, urges, etc., such that we are seeing more disturbing phenomena these days.
The cases of extreme sadness and depression, obsessions-compulsions, stress, and other aberrant forms of behavior, if not vices and perversions, have increased. We are seeing a lot more of drug addictions, dysfunctional and broken families, and mental illnesses.
Even in my normal run of hearing confessions and giving spiritual direction to what I consider as regular people, I notice a proliferation of emotional wounds, some deep and grave. I consider these as fertile ground for worse things to develop.
Frankly, it’s getting harder for me not to get affected and to remain dry-eyed when I see even children and young boys and girls manifesting signs of deep emotional anguish and torture due to a variety of reasons and causes. They are not spared.
This is not to mention that those who seem to have a healthy affective life, humanly speaking, have it but without or with hardly any relation to God and to things of God. Piety is often stiff, because the proper feelings are absent.
I think we have to understand that there is an architectonic shift taking place in our world today. The great value added in the area of technology has, sadly, not been matched by a corresponding value added in the area of attitudes.
Put bluntly, we seem to be getting sophisticated in our technologies, but still quite primitive in our mentalities. In biblical terms, it’s like putting “new wine into old wineskins.” New wine should go with new wineskins.
While before, it was enough to have a very general and shallow knowledge of our affective world, now it would seem such knowledge could be very dangerous.
There’s a need, especially to parents, teachers, and to people like me, priests, to know more about the affective life. There are tricky, even treacherous areas when we start touching the affective lives of people, and we need to master them.
In the classical system, feelings rank low in importance, rating far below that of our spiritual faculties—our intelligence and will. Doubtless, there’s good reason for that. The problem is that such system often tends to ignore our emotions completely. And that’s criminal.
Feelings and emotions, the world of our senses and passions, are an integral part of our personhood, because we cannot be without them. We have been designed by God to have them.
Our Catechism teaches us that: “The passions are natural components of the human psyche. They form the passageway and ensure the connection between the life of the senses and the life of the mind.” (1764)
We should never forget this truth, not even to disparage it, since as our Catechism again tells us: “Moral perfection consists in man’s being moved to the good not by his will alone, but also by his sensitive appetite, as in the words of the Psalm: ‘My heart and flesh sing for joy to the living God.’” (1770)
We just have to learn how to attune and conform our emotions to the ideals and standards of our Christian life. We have to have a good understanding of what is healthy affective life and what is not, and what causes and reinforces them.
Besides, we need to know certain skills that are adapted to the growing needs of how to effectively handle our feelings and emotions so they keep in the proper orbit.
It’s nice to know that some serious studies are being made in this regard. Many of them are inspired and built upon the Christian concept of man. This is a good development that needs to be fostered. Its more certain findings should be widely spread out.
We cannot deny the fact that there are also schools of thought in this area that are not quite compatible with our Christian faith. We have to be careful with them, and engage them in a continuing dialogue to seek clarifications and focus on the objective truths about our affective life
Monday, June 16, 2008
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Life of prayer
THIS is serious business for all of us, and in fact it admits of no exception. Prayer is the lifeline of our soul, just as eating and breathing are for our body. We need to do it not only to survive, but more to keep us spiritually vibrant and productive everyday.
Life should be a flow of prayer. Prayer should stream the whole of our life!
We therefore have to feel the constantly urgent task of improving the way we pray. We cannot allow it to be held hostage by the fluctuations of our moods and the ebb and flow of our human conditions, physical, social, psychological, etc.
Even in the worst scenario when we feel impeded to pray, or we find ourselves completely without energy, or like a dry and dead fossil uninspired, we simply have to find a way to do it. And there are always ways available.
St. John Mary Vianney, a simple but very holy priest, gives us an idea. “My God, if my tongue cannot say in every moment that I love you, I want my heart to repeat it to you as often as I draw breath,” he once said in his pious reasoning.
Let’s remember what St. Augustine once said: “Lord, you have made us for yourself, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.”
Those, who by reason of health, handicap or any problem are unable to consciously pray, can always be helped by others. What are we social beings for if we cannot also help others to pray? Our sociability can also extend to our spiritual duties, you know!
We have to be more aware of our vast powers and infinite ways to pray. What the body is unable and our feelings cannot cope, our spirit always can.
And in our spirit, what our mind cannot penetrate because of the mysteries, our heart always can. The heart does not seek to understand these mysteries. It simply enjoys them and gives witness to them.
This is our challenge. Especially these days when we can get harassed by many pressures, or drowned by information overdrive, or led to blind activism, it’s good to be reminded that the possibility to pray is always there.
Obviously, our usual concern in this regard should be that we manage to do some personal mental prayer, at least for a few minutes everyday. If we want to convert our whole life into prayer, this task is a must.
We have to see it as something indispensable. We should stop treating it as if it competes with our other activities. We don’t allow our work to compete with our meals, do we? We somehow manage to make them go together. The same should be true with our prayer and our other activities.
Growing deep in our prayer means a persistent desire to know and love our Lord better. Christ should not just be an idea, a slogan, a historical figure. He is a living person in the Holy Spirit. We have to be aware of this reality always, so we can behave accordingly.
We need to make many acts of the will and of the heart, that is, acts of faith and love, to sustain our mental prayer and engage our Lord in a loving conversation, or at least to simply feel and rejoice in his presence.
It’s when we pray in this way that we enter deeper into reality, actually a richer reality, since it will be a reality that goes beyond what simply are sensible or even intelligible. It’s the reality of the spiritual and the supernatural.
This is when we become spiritual, and not just material and carnal. This is when we acquire a supernatural outlook, and not just having some human attitudes.
This is when we behave according to faith, hope and charity, and actively enjoy and exercise the gifts of the Holy Spirit like wisdom, understanding, knowledge, piety, counsel, fortitude, fear of the Lord.
This is when we become contemplatives even if we are in the middle of the world.
We have to frequently ask ourselves whether we are praying and whether we are praying well. Are we growing in our identification with Christ?
We have to ask ourselves these questions because we can always deceive ourselves. With our capacity for plasticity, we can appear like praying, but really not praying.
Life should be a flow of prayer. Prayer should stream the whole of our life!
We therefore have to feel the constantly urgent task of improving the way we pray. We cannot allow it to be held hostage by the fluctuations of our moods and the ebb and flow of our human conditions, physical, social, psychological, etc.
Even in the worst scenario when we feel impeded to pray, or we find ourselves completely without energy, or like a dry and dead fossil uninspired, we simply have to find a way to do it. And there are always ways available.
St. John Mary Vianney, a simple but very holy priest, gives us an idea. “My God, if my tongue cannot say in every moment that I love you, I want my heart to repeat it to you as often as I draw breath,” he once said in his pious reasoning.
Let’s remember what St. Augustine once said: “Lord, you have made us for yourself, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.”
Those, who by reason of health, handicap or any problem are unable to consciously pray, can always be helped by others. What are we social beings for if we cannot also help others to pray? Our sociability can also extend to our spiritual duties, you know!
We have to be more aware of our vast powers and infinite ways to pray. What the body is unable and our feelings cannot cope, our spirit always can.
And in our spirit, what our mind cannot penetrate because of the mysteries, our heart always can. The heart does not seek to understand these mysteries. It simply enjoys them and gives witness to them.
This is our challenge. Especially these days when we can get harassed by many pressures, or drowned by information overdrive, or led to blind activism, it’s good to be reminded that the possibility to pray is always there.
Obviously, our usual concern in this regard should be that we manage to do some personal mental prayer, at least for a few minutes everyday. If we want to convert our whole life into prayer, this task is a must.
We have to see it as something indispensable. We should stop treating it as if it competes with our other activities. We don’t allow our work to compete with our meals, do we? We somehow manage to make them go together. The same should be true with our prayer and our other activities.
Growing deep in our prayer means a persistent desire to know and love our Lord better. Christ should not just be an idea, a slogan, a historical figure. He is a living person in the Holy Spirit. We have to be aware of this reality always, so we can behave accordingly.
We need to make many acts of the will and of the heart, that is, acts of faith and love, to sustain our mental prayer and engage our Lord in a loving conversation, or at least to simply feel and rejoice in his presence.
It’s when we pray in this way that we enter deeper into reality, actually a richer reality, since it will be a reality that goes beyond what simply are sensible or even intelligible. It’s the reality of the spiritual and the supernatural.
This is when we become spiritual, and not just material and carnal. This is when we acquire a supernatural outlook, and not just having some human attitudes.
This is when we behave according to faith, hope and charity, and actively enjoy and exercise the gifts of the Holy Spirit like wisdom, understanding, knowledge, piety, counsel, fortitude, fear of the Lord.
This is when we become contemplatives even if we are in the middle of the world.
We have to frequently ask ourselves whether we are praying and whether we are praying well. Are we growing in our identification with Christ?
We have to ask ourselves these questions because we can always deceive ourselves. With our capacity for plasticity, we can appear like praying, but really not praying.
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Eucharistic life
SOME weeks ago, we observed the solemnity of Corpus Christi , the liturgical celebration of the Body and Blood of Christ.
Usually after the Mass, a procession around town of the Blessed Sacrament was made, drawing a big crowd of devotees. In some communities, the celebration was extended to a week-long adoration of the Eucharist.
They’re Christian practices, happily common in many places all over the world and deeply rooted in the long history of our Church tradition.
In our country, these practices are still popular, thanks be to God. But they certainly need a lot of boosting, given the secularizing tendencies of our times. We ought to be more aware of this concern that should involve all of us.
To date, we already have a very comprehensive theology about this central mystery of our faith. And a good number of relevant spiritualities have developed through the ages. There also are several groups who ardently dedicate themselves to this devotion.
Just the same, we need to multiply and sustain our efforts to transform this Eucharistic devotion into a Eucharistic life, involving not only a few or even many people, but in fact all of us, as it should.
This is because the Eucharist is the source and summit of our Christian life. It’s where we have Christ sacramentally present and where he continues to offer his life on the cross for us and who gives himself as our spiritual food.
To put it bluntly, our Christianity ceases if this sacrament gets completely obliterated.
This truth of our faith is that with his death, Christ has not left us orphans. He continues to be with us, through the sacraments and in the Church, thanks to the Holy Spirit who extends Christ’s presence and work throughout time without any diminution, regardless of our conditions.
Especially through the sacrament of the Holy Eucharist, Christ has not left us not only with some symbols and signs alone.
Through the liturgy, the real Christ, in the entirety of his divinity and humanity, who is now seated in the right hand of his Father, comes to us, remains here on earth and makes himself intimately available to us.
With this sacrament, Christ and us are not held hostage by the limitations of space and time. We manage to be together—in fact, in so direct and personal a way as to be properly termed as communion, a union of life and love.
With this sacrament, time and eternity merge, and so do heaven and earth. United to it, even our smallest and most insignificant detail in our life, including our sufferings and things we don’t like, acquire eternal and redemptive value.
This is the supreme treasure of a truth that we all need to be more aware of. Hopefully, we can then start to earnestly conform our whole life to this reality—our thoughts and desires, our feelings, outlook and attitudes, etc.
In fact, this is the ideal that we should pursue always. This is because the Eucharist, the real Christ in the sacrament, is the ultimate and constant food for our life. We don’t depend on food, water and air. We depend on Christ.
And neither do we depend on our intellectual progress and technological and scientific advancement. These things can be very impressive. But they don’t completely satisfy our soul. We long for more. It’s Christ that does that.
Our usual problem is that we don’t go all the way in our Eucharistic faith. Our devotion to it often appears simply posed, scripted and staged, and not really issuing vitally from our heart and life. Thus, it is also not abiding, but rather intermittent. It’s on and off depending on conditions.
It should be no surprise if we are often dominated by our weaknesses, not to mention, the continuing temptations around us.
Our catechesis on this truth of our faith should never stop. Parents in their respective families should talk ceaselessly about this. Priests, of course, should preach about it in homilies and in other occasions.
Everyone should do something to help one another live an authentic Eucharistic life. We have to foster going to Mass often, making visits to the Blessed Sacrament, spending time adoring our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament chapels, making frequent spiritual communions, etc.
We have to understand that our life should not be any other than Eucharistic!
Usually after the Mass, a procession around town of the Blessed Sacrament was made, drawing a big crowd of devotees. In some communities, the celebration was extended to a week-long adoration of the Eucharist.
They’re Christian practices, happily common in many places all over the world and deeply rooted in the long history of our Church tradition.
In our country, these practices are still popular, thanks be to God. But they certainly need a lot of boosting, given the secularizing tendencies of our times. We ought to be more aware of this concern that should involve all of us.
To date, we already have a very comprehensive theology about this central mystery of our faith. And a good number of relevant spiritualities have developed through the ages. There also are several groups who ardently dedicate themselves to this devotion.
Just the same, we need to multiply and sustain our efforts to transform this Eucharistic devotion into a Eucharistic life, involving not only a few or even many people, but in fact all of us, as it should.
This is because the Eucharist is the source and summit of our Christian life. It’s where we have Christ sacramentally present and where he continues to offer his life on the cross for us and who gives himself as our spiritual food.
To put it bluntly, our Christianity ceases if this sacrament gets completely obliterated.
This truth of our faith is that with his death, Christ has not left us orphans. He continues to be with us, through the sacraments and in the Church, thanks to the Holy Spirit who extends Christ’s presence and work throughout time without any diminution, regardless of our conditions.
Especially through the sacrament of the Holy Eucharist, Christ has not left us not only with some symbols and signs alone.
Through the liturgy, the real Christ, in the entirety of his divinity and humanity, who is now seated in the right hand of his Father, comes to us, remains here on earth and makes himself intimately available to us.
With this sacrament, Christ and us are not held hostage by the limitations of space and time. We manage to be together—in fact, in so direct and personal a way as to be properly termed as communion, a union of life and love.
With this sacrament, time and eternity merge, and so do heaven and earth. United to it, even our smallest and most insignificant detail in our life, including our sufferings and things we don’t like, acquire eternal and redemptive value.
This is the supreme treasure of a truth that we all need to be more aware of. Hopefully, we can then start to earnestly conform our whole life to this reality—our thoughts and desires, our feelings, outlook and attitudes, etc.
In fact, this is the ideal that we should pursue always. This is because the Eucharist, the real Christ in the sacrament, is the ultimate and constant food for our life. We don’t depend on food, water and air. We depend on Christ.
And neither do we depend on our intellectual progress and technological and scientific advancement. These things can be very impressive. But they don’t completely satisfy our soul. We long for more. It’s Christ that does that.
Our usual problem is that we don’t go all the way in our Eucharistic faith. Our devotion to it often appears simply posed, scripted and staged, and not really issuing vitally from our heart and life. Thus, it is also not abiding, but rather intermittent. It’s on and off depending on conditions.
It should be no surprise if we are often dominated by our weaknesses, not to mention, the continuing temptations around us.
Our catechesis on this truth of our faith should never stop. Parents in their respective families should talk ceaselessly about this. Priests, of course, should preach about it in homilies and in other occasions.
Everyone should do something to help one another live an authentic Eucharistic life. We have to foster going to Mass often, making visits to the Blessed Sacrament, spending time adoring our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament chapels, making frequent spiritual communions, etc.
We have to understand that our life should not be any other than Eucharistic!
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