And now that we are in some sort of new normal due to this
COVID pandemic that is making drastic changes in the whole world, we
have to contend with things that can be so new that we would not even
realize that they have to be considered. We find ourselves in the
dark.
This is where we really should try to remain calm and in
strong grip of our emotions, especially our fears and worries, so that
we can handle the situation better. We have to be wary of the danger
of the negative reactions we can give to these new challenges, like
falling into sadness, depression, self-pity and the like.
Of course, that calmness should not just be a psychological
trick that we use, though it in itself is already helpful. Our
calmness should be anchored on more solid ground which is nothing
other than on our strong faith and hope in God’s providence.
Let’s remember that fears and worries would just make things
worse for us. They are an unnecessary luggage to carry in our pursuit
for what is prudent for us in these times. They are really a drag that
can actually be avoided if we have the right attitude toward these new
challenges.
What we should rather do is strengthen our faith such that
it can give us always the impulse of hope and the assurance that
whatever happens everything will just work out for the good if we are
with God.
Though we have to study the issues and problems well, making
some consultations if necessary, and doing everything to make us feel
that we have done our part to come out with a good decision, we know
that we can still be wrong.
There are times when we ought to refrain from making a
decision or a judgment about a certain issue. But in those other times
when we ought to make a choice for one reason or another in spite of
the tentativeness of our position, then we should be ready to take
some risks.
The important thing is that we be always with God. Our
decisions and judgments may be wrong at the end, but at least, if we
have done our part in studying things, then it would just be ok. We
are not expected to be always right. Mistakes and misjudgments can
always happen in spite of our best intentions and best efforts. At
least, we can say that those mistakes and misjudgments were done in
“bona fide,” in good faith.
We should just be sport and game in all of this, and try to
learn the precious lessons we can derive from whatever experience we
can have while taking some risks. It’s also important, that whatever
happens, we should always try to remain at peace and cheerful, which
is what we are meant for. The moment we lose our peace and joy, we are
actually in trouble!
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