Just the same, we have to be aware of the dangers that
this attitude can also occasion. And that happens when we become too
idealistic that we fail to be realistic. We get too attached to the
ideal that we avoid considering the bare realities on the ground.
In a sense we fall into the excesses of idealism. That’s
when we tend to build some kind of ivory tower, enclosing ourselves in
our own ideas, theories and doctrines that, while useful to a certain
extent, always need to be adapted properly to the objective situation
or issue at hand.
That’s when we become armchair players in the drama of
life, not realizing that ideas, theories and doctrines are no cold,
frozen things, but are meant to dynamic, subject always to some
development, deepening, and evolution.
What is worse is that when our ideals are not attained
precisely because they are badly applied and adapted to the realities
on the ground, then we can either fall into a deep state of
disappointment and depression or into the other extreme of forcing the
ideal by using violence and even terrorism.
Both can be a consequence of perfectionism brought about
when we are too idealistic. Sad to say, we are actually seeing both
cases taking place in the world today.
Another danger of idealism is the common tendency to make
people associate themselves only with those who hold the same ideas as
they have. This is not just a matter of having the legitimate
specialization that all of us have, but rather of becoming a closed
group that is unmindful of the objective needs of the others. Thus, we
can have the anomaly of elitism.
It’s a subtle form of self-indulgence that can make people
unaware of their failure to serve the real and objective needs of
others because of the badly-based self-esteem they have due to their
erroneous sense of idealism. In other words, they will not serve
others if they fail to meet the standards and criteria of their
idealism.
We have to be most careful with these dangers of idealism.
What we should rather do is to be always mindful, thoughtful and eager
to know, love and serve the others in their objective needs. In a
sense, we have to get dirty with them, because no matter how sublime
our human dignity is, we cannot deny that we always have weaknesses,
failures and sins.
We have to understand that the road to our proper human
and Christian perfection, which is to be like God as God wants us to
be, is by truly serving others in their needs.
Of course, we have to see to it that our serving them
should be oriented in the end to the glorification of God, and not
just the meeting of some human, natural and temporal needs. But we
have to do it by considering them in their objective condition and
circumstances in life, no matter how difficult.
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